Strawberry Generation

Hi guys....

Today I will share about a new knowledge for us about Strawberry Generation.

Since, I have been reading this interesting topic from my local newspaper.

Let's start...

So, What is exactly the Strawberry Generation itself?

According to the writer of this column (Prof. Rhenald Kasali),

we are the young generation, we are the Strawberry Generation.

Well, this explanation is not satisfy me enough then I tried to search it in the internet.

So, it  explains that Strawberry Generation is a Chinese neologism for Taiwanese

who born in between 1980 and 1990. At the first, this generation was labelled to Taiwanese only,

but now it was adapt to X generation especially in Asia.

Source : http://english.people.com.cn

Why it is labelled as Strawberry?

That is because this generation grown up in the better environment,

as you can see strawberry is a fruit which vegetate in a green house , or in the good weather,

which is not too hot and not too cold.

Then the other reason, strawberry is known for their beauty, delicacy, and also high price,

but in other hand strawberry is also known as a fruit which easy to get defect.

So, it was subset from this generation which is weak even though they are smart

and have amazing the way of thinking but they are can not stand with pressure, difficulties, and disappointment.

Back to the local newspaper I have read. The writer gave an example when he met

the young executive in the company which the condition was deadlock.

The writer said that he was impressed by the idea of the young executive,

which was the idea according to the writer is out of the box.

However, when the last session of question and answer, his facial expression was change.

He was looked that he could not accept the situation,

which the situation is others criticism about his idea.

Then, not so long time ago, he (the writer) met again with that young executive.

Then he (the young executive) said that he was move to other company,

that is because he felt that he was attacked in that meeting,

which in the old generation get attack in the meeting is something usual.

In short, the writer thought that Strawberry Generation did not know how complicated

the battlefield the old generation faced.

So guys...do you believe that you are look like strawberry???

Or you are disagree with this topic???

From my point of view...the one know who you are is only you not the others.

So, if you making a mistake or people disagree with you do not force them to trust you.

But you have to increase it...because sometimes we can said the truth about others

but we can not accept when people said something truth about us....

- Au revoir a tus- 

How To Maximize Your Beauty

Bonjour my lovely girls,

I feel so sorry because it is already a long time I am not updated this blog.

Actually I feel a bit bad for neglecting this blog since last year.

My time was overtaken by my thesis, yeah big bad thesis. 

Probably it is not to late for me to share something I learn.

So, yesterday I came to my friends house and we shared about how to maximize your beauty.

Then many questions come over from our mind.

Is it  enough if we have pretty face?

Or may be good inner beauty?

Is classy attitude will bring us into it?

And many more off course.

Because our discussion did not bring us into the best answer so we kept in for ourselves.

After several days, we already meet our answer so now I want to share our discussion about it.

So, this is the way for Maximize Your Beauty Via Snowcandies.blog

1. Be Your Self

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Actually, What I want to talk about is your behavior. Then why I choose be yourself as a title?

because attitude is one of yourself. Your attitude is you, and what people talk about you is about your attitude. Every single person in this world has a unique attitude, and people also have good and bad attitude in them. So, that is your choice to choose you want to develop your good attitude or your bad one. 

So, to maximize your beauty, you do not have to become another person. To make people have a good impression you do not have to imitate other just like try speak like Emma Watson or Emma Stone, or become so classy like Kate Middleton or her sister Pippa Middleton. Now, I am sure all of you wonder how to maximize it. Then here are the clues:

To begin with this, the first thing I want to say is you have to know best yourself. You have know what are your strengths and your weaknesses, then make it to become your opportunities. Do not change your self. Let me give you an example, people around you, know you as a cheerful and funny girl, but in other hand they also know you as a bitter tongue. So, in order to maximize your beauty, you have to learn to minimum to speak a bitter word or inappropriate word. While learn to minimum the usage of bitter word, you can train your self as a cheerful and funny girl, with appropriate jokes. Well, a good joke does not have to hurt others right. Use Powerful Word which makes your powerful.

2. Use the powerful word, which can make you so powerful

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Then after you can maximize your strengths. Try to make people interest with something you say. All of you need is know what you need to say and not what you want to say. Try to make what is your purpose to speak and what you want to covey. Then make it the priority. The best and powerful words it always contain 3 factors:

• The first it can make people think.
• Then  can make people move to one point to another point. Which makes people want to do what you say.
• And the last is keep it short and simple.

If your words can contain that three factors, it means you also can contain this three little trick to make you looks charm around your environment.

• Make the way you talk is capable to conveying others.
• With those "right words" try to make "right situation" to negotiate or offering something.
• Your word should explain what happened with make sense excuse.

3. Use the language in which people can not lie

What kind of language in the world which people can not lie? well, the answer is body language.
May be all of you ever seen people not angry but her face is getting red or may be you ever seen people offering something but they did use the right position.
So, which of body language the best to implement ?
Here are the tips :

• The first do not forget to always keep your eyes contact to people. Since, make an eyes contact makes people who speak with you feel so 
• Then don't forget with your facial expression, make the expression which make other feel comfort with you.
• Watch your body posture, gesture and hand movement. Keep them polite and do not offense other.

4. First impression

First impression is the best way to steal others perception about you. It means anything. It takes no more than ten seconds to steal people perception about you. So, what is the "First impression" which can make people judge you bad or not. Well, I can said it was your style and facial expression for sure.....

For instance, remember how did you feel when the first time you met your spouse, what made you instantly like your spouse in the first time??? if I might guess it must be "first impression" right???. Do you know there is why there is "Love At The First Sight", that is because when people meet you for the first time they will making the decision and the judgement about you just looking your appearance  for ten second only.

So, making a good first impression to others is an opportunity for itself, especially for you to getting a job or dealing a business, first impression tactic is one of the best way to get what is your goal.

I hope my post will have a good benefit for you...